I had never heard of this before the other day when watching clips from The View where they had a bemusing chat on the issue. See the video HERE.
As it turns out there are many women out there “reclaiming” their virginity by opting to abstain from any further sexual activity. Basically, they’re choosing celibacy. The reasons vary from religious beliefs to emotional burnout.
I found the following bit of information on-line while researching this topic:
Donna Marie Williams, author of SENSUAL CELIBACY, claims there are several celibate categories:
Include nuns, monks, and priests. Sexual abstinence is dictated as part of their vows and vocation. (No viable career choices here for me)
Are individuals who have enjoyed sex in the past (or maybe not) and are now quite content to live without it. Some widows and seniors might fall into this category. (I plan on bonin’ till I’m dead…maybe I’ll die in the midst of the act. Oh Happy Day)
TEN COMMANDMENT CELIBATES
Are committed to abstaining from sex until marriage. (HA!! Too late! Another reason to stay on my knees.)
Are women who are involved in passionate love affairs. They consider themselves celibate because they are not indulging in intercourse, but come pretty darned close. (These beoyatches are teases and are prone to ass beatings if you ask me.)
Deliberately excuse themselves from the dating arena in order to heal from emotional or physical trauma. Some women in this category have been victims of domestic violence, rape, or the death of a spouse.
Remain celibate until involved in a monogamous, committed relationship that may or may not lead to marriage.
I think you’re full of shit and you’re not fooling anyone but yourself. You’re sure as hell not going to fool the next man you bone and you’re definitely not fooling God – He was there the last time you were face down, ass up biting a pillow screaming “OH GOOODDDD OH GOOOODDD!!! OH. MYYY. GAA—HAAAAAD“. Nah, you’re not fooling Him sweetie.
Baby girl this isn’t golf, you can’t call a Mulligan or a “do-over”. Well, not unless you decide to go all radical and shyt like some women who are actually turning to surgical procedures to restore their virginity – surgical replacement of the hymen, the small membrane that stretches from the walls of the vagina.
WHAT THE HELL are they thinking?!!! Why the hot ass hell would I opt to become a “real” virgin again experiencing the pain and awkwardness like the first encounter?
Hell no!! I’ll pass thank you very much!
What about you? Where do you stand on the matter?